Daily Faith TV
RESTORE35m·Dec 17, 2024

Daily Faith with Philip Cameron: Special Guest Jeff Schadt

Family counselor and Revive Family executive director Jeff Schadt joins Philip Cameron to unpack the real — and often invisible — forces driving children's defiance, rebellion, and spiritual drift. After interviewing more than 3,000 kids firsthand, Schadt discovered that most parents are misreading the signals their children send. "We've been taught to focus on the green part of the weed, the bad behavior," he explains, "but when you cut off the top of a weed, the root system doubles in size." His book What's Really Causing My Kids' Bad Behavior identifies five key factors beneath the surface, including unconscious thoughts and emotions — 95% of which children (and adults) are completely unaware of — stored trauma held in the amygdala, and post-COVID fight-or-flight dysregulation that mimics ADD/ADHD. Schadt and Philip explore how adolescents actually learn better through independence than control, why teens still deeply want closeness with their parents even when they appear distant, and how unaddressed stored trauma can silently hijack family relationships for decades. Parents, pastors, and counselors will find practical next steps at onerulehome.com, where Schadt's book and a free 70-page Child Concern Index report are currently available at no cost. Schedule a coaching appointment directly through revivefamily.com.

What's Discussed

Jeff Schadt, executive director of Revive Family in Durango, Colorado, shares findings from interviews with 3,000 children to explain what truly underlies kids' bad behavior. His book What's Really Causing My Kids' Bad Behavior identifies five root factors: unconscious thoughts and emotions (95% of all emotional life), stored trauma in the amygdala, and post-COVID fight-or-flight dysregulation. Schadt argues that punishing surface behavior without addressing these roots is ineffective — and that teens still want closeness with parents even when they appear rebellious. Resources including a free Child Concern Index report and coaching appointments are available at onerulehome.com and revivefamily.com.

  1. 20:09Jeff Schadt's 3,000-Kid Research Journey
  2. 21:10What Struggling Kids Actually Want From Parents
  3. 24:24Adolescent Independence vs. Parental Control
  4. 24:48Root Causes Behind Bad Behavior
  5. 26:00Unconscious Thoughts and the 95% Factor
  6. 26:52Post-COVID Fight-or-Flight in Children
  7. 29:29Stored Trauma and the Amygdala Explained
  8. 32:10Free Resources at One Rule Home

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